If I gave you a Valentine
for everytime you made
a difference in my life
For every time
you listened
or cheered me up
or shared my good mood...
or taught me
something important
about myself
and the world...
It would only begin
to show you
how very much
you’re in my heart
You’re always
an important part
of my life
now and forever…

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~For Thoughts~

1. To My Fwen Who Are.......SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly

The more u chase it

The more it eludes u

But if you just let it fly

It will come to u when u least expect it

Love can make u happy but often it hurts

But love only special when u give it to someone who is really worth it

So take ur time & choose the best
2. To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
3. To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say "I love you" if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...
4. To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry." Not "where are you", but "I'm right here." Not "how could you", but "I understand." Not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."
5. To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
6. To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them .
7. To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
8. To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
9. To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
10. To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
11. TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
My wish for you is men/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

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hey..hey..hey...

This is a short story 'bout the eternal love..the true love... but i'm sorry because it is in Malay.. i've not translet it yet..but this is an interesting story..hope u will enjoy it!!!

p/s- I'll translet it later

....Dalam satu kisah percintaan yang menarik....

Sepasang suami isteri berjalan di tepi sebuah tasik yang indah. Kemudian mereka berhenti di sebuah bangku yang disediakan di tepi tasik. Kemudian si isteri bertanya kepada si suami. Ini dialog mereka

Isteri : Mengapa abang menyukai saya? Mengapa abang cintakan saya?

Suami : Abang tidak boleh menerangkan sebabnya, namun begitu abang memang menyayangi dan mencintai Sayang!

Isteri : Abang tak boleh terangkan sebabnya? Bagaimana abang boleh katakan abang sayang dan cintakan saya sedangkan abang tidak boleh menerangkannya.

Suami : Betul! Abang tak tahu sebabnya tetapi abang boleh buktikan bahawa abang memang cintakan Sayang!

Isteri : Tak boleh beri bukti! Tidak! Saya hendak abang terangkan kepada saya sebabnya. Kawan-kawan saya yang lain yang mempunyai suami dan teman lelaki, semuanya tahu menerangkan mengapa mereka mencintai. Dalam bentuk puisi dan syair lagi. Namun begitu abang tidak boleh terangkan sebabnya

Si suami menarik nafas panjang dan dia berkata

"Baiklah! Abang mencintai Sayang sebab sayang cantik, mempunyai suara yang merdu, penyayang dan mengingati abang selalu. Abang juga sukakan senyuman manis dan setiap tapak Sayang melangkah, di situlah cinta Abang bersama Sayang!"

Si isteri tersenyum dan berpuas hati dengan penerangan suaminya tadi. Namun begitu selang beberapa hari si isteri mengalami kemalangan dan koma. Si suami amat bersedih dan menulis sepucuk surat kepada isterinya yang disayangi. Surat itu diletakkan di sebelah katil isterinya di hospital. Surat tersebut berbunyi begini :

"Sayang!Jika disebabkan suara aku mencintai mu... sekarang bolehkah engkau bersuara? Tidak! Oleh itu aku tidak boleh mencintai mu. Jika disebabkan kasih sayang dan ingatan aku mencintai mu...sekarang bolehkah engkau menunjukkannya? Tidak! Oleh itu aku tidak boleh mencintai mu.Jika disebabkan senyuman aku mencintai mu... sekarang bolehkah engkau tersenyum? Tidak! Oleh itu aku tidak boleh mencintai mu.

Jika disebabkan setiap langkah aku mencintai mu.... sekarang bolehkah engkau melangkah? Tidak! Oleh itu aku tidak boleh mencintai mu. Jika cinta memerlukan sebabnya, seperti sekarang. Aku tidak mempunyai sebab mencintai mu lagi. Adakah cinta memerlukan sebab? Tidak! Aku masih mencintai mu dulu, kini, selamanya dan cinta tidak perlu ada sebab. Kadangkala perkara tercantik dan terbaik di dunia tidak boleh dilihat, dipegang. Namun begitu... ia boleh dirasai dalam hati."

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Love ~ The True Facts That Lie Beneath It!

Okay people. Please don’t turn this page over and jus glue your eyes to this article. Since you are already started reading the beginning of this article, why not just read it all and enjoy the true facts about it.

First of all, what makes you stop by this article? Surely of cause, it must be the interesting one-word topic—LOVE. Believe it or not but the word itself can attract peoples’ attention no matter who you are. But wait, don’t get the wrong idea. Love is not all about a boy and a girl falling head over heel in love with each other. This is only the part of love.

Just look around you, don’t you realise that love has surrounded you from the day you were born? Since we’re babies, our parents and family have been lavishing us with love. They provide us with all the best things they can afford and give us education so we have light and guidance in life.

Kindergarten days were the first time we get friends and discover the friendship’s love. The more dramatic and thrilling part was when we enter teenager’s hood. Being in a period between childhood and adulthood, we learn that not all friends, love and care about us sincerely.

As we took another step ahead in life, we realised we have grown to be more mature in both mentally and physically. The height of our adolescents, the best time in our life. Suddenly, from no where it comes to us. So sweet, so cute, so irritating, so frustrating yet so interesting. Puppy love describes it all. The first love (to an opposite sex), the first date, the long hours of conversation (don’t forget the high telephone bills), the first taste of jealousy and don’t forget the won’t be forgotten, the first heart-break.

From my point of view, puppy love did and could make changes in one’s personality. We learn to give and take, be patient and trust. But there’s one exception, even though you fully trust your partner, but you still have to think ‘bout what he/she have said ‘bout others.

There’s no doubt to say we can’t live without love. Because of love, we miss and remember our loved ones everyday especially when the loved ones are far away. Because of love too, we still remember those who had passed away and always keep them fresh in our mind.

Love can touch us one time,
And last for a lifetime…

The power of love is obviously great because it can affect our life. There is even a Malay quote on how powerful love is.

“Mandi tak basah, tidur tak lena, makan tak lalu…”

You can laugh at it but beware when your turn arrives! I also believe when we say love is blind and my biggest example is Titanic. Rose fell truly, madly, deeply in love with a con artist (but a very good looking one) when she choose to live a luxurious life with her fiancé. But please, avoid loving someone for their fortune or good looking figure. The real, true love can only be found from the inside not outside.

“The most beautiful things in life can never be seen or touched, but it must be felt from the heart.”

Well, we come to the end but before I pen-off, there are something I’ve once acquired and would like to share. Often in life we never appreciate the one we love until we lost them. How many of you told your parents everyday that you love them? If you haven’t, better get started. Who knows what will happen to them tomorrow. Last but not least, there’s a poem that have been one of my favourite and I hope it will be yours too.

“Roses are red, violets are blue,
When I tidur, I’ll be dreaming of you.
I love you, you love me,
I’ll remember you till the day I mati!!!”

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.: PUPPY LOVE :.

Puppy love. An interesting topic. Puppy love is an adolescent love or infatuation, puppy love means temporary love of an adolescent, and love itself means a strong positive emotion of regard and affection. The term is often used in a derogatory fashion, describing emotions which are shallow and evanescent in contract to other forms of love such as romantic love.

There is often, initially, more emphasis on the emotions than on physical pleasure. Puppy love, also commonly known as a "crush", can also describe the love or lust of a child or adolescent for an adult. For example; a girl being attracted to her teacher.

If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous then it's not love... it's ~INFATUATION ~......

Yeah... That’s what I mean. This type of feeling called infatuation. The term may meet with resistance from some young people as patronising and belittling of genuine emotion. Infatuation is based on fantasy and is often consuming and exhausting. Sometimes, it can lower down our self-esteem because we eager for our beloved ones’ attention. During Elizabethan times, puppy was known as “calf-love”.

A famous example can be found in William Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet. This story tell us about a young man, Romeo Montague who’s infatuated with a girl named Rosaline before finding his true love with Juliet Capulet. To be sure, there are many people who had faced puppy love. It seems that most teenagers are getting involved and interested with the opposite sex as a form of leisure. Those people, I think, have very short memories, and no longer recall the realities of their first love experiences.

Frequently, puppy love happen we are still in the secondary school. An unforgettable and the most wonderful moment one ever had. Those sad and happy days we had. My first love experience is still lingered on my head. I’ve a crush on someone when I was in Form 3. Too young huh. I was a former of a girl school in Klang area, Convent. Yeah… GO GO GO Convent Girlz!!!

“Listen to our motto,
Guiding us as we go..
Simple in our virtue,
Steadfast in our work…
Life is full of challenge
Be willing to share…”

Those are the first verse of my school song… Ahh… Forgot the lyrics already. I can still remember when I met him for the first time. It happens when I want to make a tinkle to my dad, asking him to take me home at the bus station. What a gentlemen of him (good-looking boy too). He let me use the balance of his coin and he refused when I wanted to return his coin. My friend told me that he is my petsist’s brother. Huhu.. What a small world.

Thought that we can’t even meet again but on mid July, I’ve attend a PMR Seminar which was held in KL. Accidentally, I met him again. Dup dap dup dap. I think a cupid has arched me. From that moment, we get closer and closer. Okay, enough. That’s all I can tell. The rest of the story is SECRET.

"It is wrong to think that Love comes from long companionship or persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of a spiritual affinity, and unless that affinity is created IN A MOMENT, it will not be created in years or even generations."

Puppy love is the most wonderful thing among teenagers. It is very real and powerful. Conceivably at no other time in our lives are the joys and pains felt as strongly, or experienced more deeply. I’ve read news about puppy love. The news said that most teenagers who are in love have a higher risk for depression, alcohol problems and delinquency than teens who do not get romantically involved. And love-sick girls, especially younger ones, are at an even higher risk for depression than boys. See, how love can really affect someone.

“It’s taking a minute to know someone, About an hour to have a crush on someone, But it takes a lifetime to forget someone…”

That’s true. One of the relationships that lasted about a month has taken several months from which to recover. It was so difficult for the girl especially to recover from it. We can see many real feelings were put on the line during that very short period of time.

There can be many stories of the teenage lovers and as such we can find that they turn out to be successful as well as not successful. Rather we find that this teenage love has more of a sexual tendency. So in a manner according to me it is really not true love but there can be exceptions.

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